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Diaspora Need Not Apply

There is a fantastic oped in the NY Times from Alana Newhouse, the editor in chief of Tablet Magazine (which I really enjoy). There is a bill before the Israeli Knesset that may radically change Israel. That bill would give the ultra-orthodox power to say who is Jewish and who isn’t. This would destroy the connection between most Diaspora Jews (Jews living outside of Israel) and Israel. I wrote about the problem of Who is a Jew before when I visited Israel and the religious problem in Israel. I’ve also written about the Supreme Court case in Britain of determining who is Jewish. This is an issue that is very close to my heart and very important to me.

Here is the Oped: NY Times Oped

Here are my past related blog posts:

Are you Religious?
The Swing Vote
Who Determines Who is Jewish?

Who Determines Who is Jewish?

There is a case before the Supreme Court of Britain. The question is who is a Jew? There is a real identity problem in today’s Jewry. Is being Jewish a race or a faith or both? This is an issue as the Orthodox have put themselves in charge of who is Jewish and who isn’t. And according to the Orthodox, if your mother isn’t Jewish, you aren’t Jewish. This gives the Orthdox tremendous power in the Jewish world. If you convert to Judaism you can only be Jewish if converted by the Orthodox. There have been real problems in Israel about this as I have written before:

Swing Vote

Here is an excerpt from a very good New York Times article about the case:

The case began when a 12-year-old boy, an observant Jew whose father is Jewish and whose mother is a Jewish convert, applied to the school, JFS. Founded in 1732 as the Jews’ Free School, it is a centerpiece of North London’s Jewish community. It has around 1,900 students, but it gets far more applicants than it accepts.

Britain has nearly 7,000 publicly financed religious schools, representing Judaism as well as the Church of England, Catholicism and Islam, among others. Under a 2006 law, the schools can in busy years give preference to applicants within their own faiths, using criteria laid down by a designated religious authority.

By many standards, the JFS applicant, identified in court papers as “M,” is Jewish. But not in the eyes of the school, which defines Judaism under the Orthodox definition set out by Jonathan Sacks, chief rabbi of the United Hebrew Congregations of the Commonwealth. Because M’s mother converted in a progressive, not an Orthodox, synagogue, the school said, she was not a Jew — nor was her son. It turned down his application.

That would have been the end of it. But M’s family sued, saying that the school had discriminated against him. They lost, but the ruling was overturned by the Court of Appeal this summer.

And check out the court’s logic for overturning the ruling:

In an explosive decision, the court concluded that basing school admissions on a classic test of Judaism — whether one’s mother is Jewish — was by definition discriminatory. Whether the rationale was “benign or malignant, theological or supremacist,” the court wrote, “makes it no less and no more unlawful.”

The case rested on whether the school’s test of Jewishness was based on religion, which would be legal, or on race or ethnicity, which would not. The court ruled that it was an ethnic test because it concerned the status of M’s mother rather than whether M considered himself Jewish and practiced Judaism.

“The requirement that if a pupil is to qualify for admission his mother must be Jewish, whether by descent or conversion, is a test of ethnicity which contravenes the Race Relations Act,” the court said. It added that while it was fair that Jewish schools should give preference to Jewish children, the admissions criteria must depend not on family ties, but “on faith, however defined.”

I think this case has strong ramifications and will bring to the forefront the problems with basing a religion on ethnicity. Whether your mother was bor Jewish or not is an arbitrary decision made up by Rabbis in the middle ages, when women were getting raped and they had no idea who the father was. Just a casual read of the bible shows the importance of patriarchal line. And the most famous convert is Ruth from the book of Ruth, who ends up being the great, great grandmother of King David. And she didn’t go through an Orthodox conversion.

I’m happy to see the case come to the limelight and I think the discussion it will engender will have lasting implications in the Jewish world.

Here is a link to the full New York Times story: Who is a Jew (NY Times)

A Broken Heart

I signed up for Rabbi Simon Jacobson’s 60 Day Journey to the High Holy Days (Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur) email list. I get an email every day to prepare me spiritually and mentally for this Jewish New Year and the Yom Kippur. The emails have been amazing, but none better than today’s email. Here it is:

Wednesday, September 9
Elul 20

THE SECRET OF A BROKEN HEART

We all make mistakes and break things in our life, but life also breaks us. We’ve all been broken in one way or another. We have all experienced broken promises or broken relationships; we have experienced the loss of a job or the loss of a loved one.

Different people react in a different manner to the hurt that inevitably accompanies breakage. Some people are devastated. Others grow because of it.

Some people have strength, some don’t. And there is a reason why. A tree that doesn’t fall over in a storm is a tree that was strong before the storm. The storm just revealed the strength of the trees. But a tree with no roots may be able to stand up in normal weather, but it breaks when a storm strikes.

And yet, the miracle of creation is that, paradoxically, the more broken you are now the more whole you have the chance to become.

The Rebbes teach that there is nothing as complete as a broken heart. When your heart is broken, you are in a place that is real.

Why is a broken wall the holiest place for Jews? Why do Jews stand and pray at a broken wall when there are such beautiful edifices around? Because, Jews know that this isn’t a perfect world. As long as the world is not perfect, Jews cannot stand in a beautiful edifice. Jews can only stand and cry at a broken wall.

The illusion of perfect edifices in an imperfect world makes us feel good. But it is an illusion nevertheless—good for Hollywood and Broadway, but it’s not reality.

The reality is that the world is a broken place—it’s a broken place full of broken people whose job is to mend what is broken.

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William Wilberforce

“Everyone should know Wilberforce,” Abraham Lincoln once said.

Wilberforce who? William Wilberforce.

I just put down an excellent biography by William Hague called William Wilberforce: The Life of the Great Anti-Slave Trade Campaigner.

First off, I had no idea who William Wilberforce was before I read this book, nor did I realize how great a man he was or how big of a figure he was in British politics from 1780 to 1830 (a time of great turmoil not only in the world but especially in Britain). I read a review of the book in the Wall Street Journal or the Financial Times (I forget which) and for some reason I was moved to buy the book.

One of the reasons I bought the book is that I was curious after reading a little bit about William Wilberforce, how a person goes up against powerful interests for a moral cause and in the end, converts almost everyone to his side.

This book and William Wilberforce’s life resonate with me deeply. One reason is that he went through a religious awakening in his late 20s like me. His awakening was evangelical Chrisitianity, mine was Judaism. His conversion compelled him to not waste any of his time and to try as much as possible to better the world. He was the standard bearer and unshakable advocate for abolition of the slave trade and also of prison reform and of education for children. He was constantly trying to help others and busy educating himself about the world. He stayed in Parliament despite many offers to be bought out and be made a Lord and be set for life. He fought the good fight and stayed independent his entire life and was widely admired for doing so.

A cheerful man, who loved to sing, who never gave up despite hopeless odds, with strong faith in God and the good of men, William Wilberforce is a “powerful beacon of light,” Mr. Hague tells us especially in our times, and I agree.

What I also love about William Wilberforce is that today, religion is put down and blamed for so many problems such as wars. Some of the blame is justified, some is not. But rarely do secularists or atheists mention the positive results from religion. And there is no greater example than that of abolition of the slave trade and of slavery itself. Without William Wilberforce’s unflappable faith in God and the faith of others like him, and his accountability to making the world a better place and of his own actions, slavery and the slave trade may still be going on to this day.

Besides the topic, the author has to be commended, because this book could easily be boring and yet it is stirring, powerful and an extremely engaging read. I highly recommend this book and think Mr. Wilberforce’s name and example should be taught to everyone.

Separation

I am reading a wonderful new biography about William Wilberforce, the great British anti-slave trade campaigner. As part of the book, the author, William Hague, describes the slave trade, how slaves were kidnapped and transported in the most brutal conditions with no regard to health or humanity.

One of the more disgusting stories describes how disease spread on one ship and many slaves died. The captain realizing that the trip was no longer profitable decided to throw the remaining slaves overboard to drown in order to collect insurance on them.

I thought to myself: how is that possible? How is it possible for one human being to do such a thing to another human being? This is not a new thought for me or other people for that matter. I’ve often wondered it when I read about slavery, the Holocaust, the Inquisition, genocide in Rwanda or events such as the Rape of Nanking. Unfortunately there are many, many examples of human atrocities.

But the thought that always gets me, is that beyond evil, how is it that a mass group of people who often believe in God and are decent people in their home setting to their families and friends can turn around and spear a baby with a bayonet or shoot a helpless old person. For any normal person to do this to another person is not natural. Then why has it happened so often throughout the history of mankind?

I believe that separation is the key. What do I mean by separation?

We feel separate from the other. We don’t look like them, we don’t act like them, and we don’t pray like them. They aren’t us. They are different. We are we and they are they. I believe this is where it starts. This is the very first step in dehumanizing or degrading someone into something. For example, I’m a Protestant and you are a Catholic, I must fight you, you aren’t me and not only are you different, you aren’t anything like me. Do Christians understand how weird and bizarre it is to Jews that Protestants and Catholics kill themselves over what seems like very small differences in beliefs? Do you think Jesus, if you believe he is God or God’s son, thinks it’s bizarre?

Just because something is different doesn’t mean it has to be separate. Your hand is different than your foot, the sky is different from land, or a trumpet is different from drums, yet they go together. There is a connection.

And this is the point I would like to make: we aren’t really separate at all. We may be different, but we are all connected by one big thing. And this thing is bigger than all of our petty differences: God. If God breathes life into us, creates us and endows us with a divine spark, then we are all connected by God. The problem is that if we don’t see that divine spark or recognize it in ourselves, then all we are is an ego mind with no real connection to each other or to God.

Until we can see that connectedness we will remain separate and will remain hostage to an inauthentic life, filled with petty differences and made up separations. We need to see, act and live the connection we have with each other.

If you were truly connected, you wouldn’t steal from yourself or kill yourself, would you? Because that is what the other person is, that person isn’t the other or separate, he is a part of you, he or she is connected to you. And the people that do hurt themselves and commit suicide do so because they feel separated or estranged from God, society, and more importantly their souls or divine sparks.

Imagine we are tiny cells or atoms that make up God’s body. If we don’t communicate to each other and help each other then how can the body function? Further, if we attack other cells, doesn’t that lead to disease? And wouldn’t a group of cells attacking other cells be considered cancer? In this analogy, is it possible that when we fight each other and kill based upon silly differences that we are killing or harming God? This is not to say that self-defense is wrong or that bad cells shouldn’t be fought, quite the contrary a body only works if its immune system is strong and works.

My request to you is to try to imagine every person you encounter as having the spark of God inside of them, even if it is hidden. Make that your very first reaction and go from there. So what if they are different. Don’t immediately make them separate, because separate starts the process of dehumanizing and devaluing that spark of God, something powerful you are connected to. At a minimum, you should start to see people in a different light. This is what has happened for me.

And maybe then you will start to see that people aren’t good or bad, but instead shades of gray and that a lot of “bad” people are instead people that are actually experiencing dysfunction and hurt, and are struggling to find God or their soul in their own life. And when you see someone less fortunate than you, maybe you will realize that it is your responsibility to help that other, connected person. Or simply help that person so you can strengthen your own connection with God, for yourself and for God.

In the Bible, when the Israelites finish building the Mishkan (the Tabernacle), they place the ark inside, in a place call the holy of holies. The ark is built with wood and inlaid with gold and inside holds the Ten Commandments. On the top were built two cherubim, or human/angel creatures facing each other from opposite ends.

In Exodus 25:22, God tells Moses he will be in the space above the ark and the Ten Commandments and between the two cherubim. One of the best commentaries I’ve ever heard taught that what God tells us he will reside in the space between two people as they face each other.

Stop separating yourself from other people. You have a connection to them and you don’t even realize it. Instead, imagine you are searching for or connected to God through other people. If more and more people believed this, then maybe atrocities and crimes against each other would slowdown or stop. Maybe people would realize they are really only hurting themselves and God.

So proud

I’m a Georgia Bulldog. On Saturdays I bleed red and black. I cannot tell you how proud I am that Mark Richt is our head coach. I actually have had the opportunity to meet with him when I threw a charity flag football event for the Athens, GA Boys and Girls Club. And I can tell you, he is a truly great, genuine man. For those of you that don’t know him watch this video and you will see what kind of person he is:

Mark Richt

Jewish Perfection

Perfection is definitely not a Jewish thought or attribute. Consider the patriarchs of Judaism such as Noah who gets drunk, Jacob who steals his brother’s birthright by misleading his father Isaac, and even Moses, the greatest of all Jews, speaks with a lisp and disobeys God. And we could have a field day talking about King David. All of these people are examples of the far from perfect and flawed heroes that God talks, communicates and makes promises to in the Tanakh (Jewish bible).

Beyond individuals, the Jewish people as a whole are definitely not perfect. One immediately remembers the “Golden Calf” incident or other times when the Jews as a “stiff-necked people” disobeyed or did not listen to God. And yet isn’t it curious that despite not being perfect, we are still the Chosen people?

Why both on an individual and group level does God communicate and make a covenant with a people that is not perfect, but sometimes deeply flawed?

I believe the answer lies in the story of the wine steward and the baker who were in Pharaoh’s jail with Joseph (He was thrown in there for being falsely accused by Potifar’s wife. Genesis 39)

The baker was in there because the Pharaoh found a stone in a loaf of bread and the wine steward was in the dungeon because a fly was found in the wine glass of Pharaoh. The subsequent fates of the two are instructive, the wine steward is freed and is reinstated to his former position and the baker is put to death. Why?

The Rabbi of Ishbitz (Chassidic Rabbi around 1840 in Poland) teaches that the baker was aiming for perfection, and tried to keep all of the bad stuff that could come into the bread from getting in, while the wine steward knew there was only so much that he control and that once he poured the wine, a fly could fly into it and there was nothing he could do about it.

In this story is the proof text that perfection is not the goal of Judaism or God. The Ishbitzer Rebbe tells us that the experience of life is God, so therefore God is the fly in your wine cup. Perfection is not the goal of life, life is the goal of life and experiencing it with all of its ups and down is the experience of God.

The baker on the other hand is completely unprepared for when something bad happens. His goal is perfection, so what happens when a stone gets into a loaf of bread, the baker dies. To the wine steward the baker’s stone is like the fly, something that happens and is part of the experience of life. But to the baker, a fly in the wine cup is a stone, something that is unacceptable, a mark of imperfection and something to fight against. In the end, the wine steward triumphs and lives and the baker dies.

And this highlights why perfection is not a Jewish ideal. Without the mistakes and the problems, or the flies and stones in our lives, how would we ever learn, grow and evolve into deeper, more aware and stronger people? And this is what Judaism teaches us, that when bad stuff that happens, when flies land in our wine cup, they are part of life and a part of God. The sooner we learn to accept the slings and arrows of life and realize we will never be perfect, the stronger we will be and the better people we will become.

This isn’t to mean that you shouldn’t strive to be a good person or be the best of your abilities, but that instead you recognize that shit happens. A favorite country singer of mine, Pat Green, says it best:

Wouldn’t life be awfully boring,
If the good times were all that we had?

If there was a Jewish perfection it would rest on learning to appreciate the flies and stones in our lives along our brief but wonderful journey and to try as much as possible to use them to our advantage and to see the Godliness and holiness in them.

Shabbat Shalom.

*This blog posting is heavily influenced and taught to me by Rabbi Avi Poupko from Pardes

Let There Be Light

I am currently in Jerusalem studying at a place called Pardes (Pardes link). I thought I would write an update as to why I’m here and what I’m studying. Here is one teaching I learned this week that I thought quite profound.

The Torah and Judaism is filled with contradictions and one of the best ways to study Torah is to study those contradictions and try to wrestle with the questions of life (remember that Israel in Hebrew means “wrestles with God”).

Consider this: God creates light on the first day, saying “let there be light.” But he doesn’t create the sun, moon and the stars until the fourth day. So what light did he create on the first day?

Hold that thought.

In the Jewish morning prayers (Shacharit), there is a prayer that thanks God for renewing the world and creating anew every day. Yet in Ecclesiastes, it says there is “nothing new under the sun.” So if there is nothing new under the sun, then how can God create new things every day?

And this is where my study begins by taking disparate, contradictory statements and exploring what each one means and what Rabbis for the past two thousand years have thought and said.

Rav Kook, the first Rabbi of British Palestine, wrote that the two statements are not contradictory because Ecclesiastes only refers to what happens under the sun. What does that mean?

And now we need to go back to my first statement about the light God created on the first day. There are many Rabbinic commentaries that teach that the first light was divine wisdom. My interpretation of Rav Kook’s comments are that when you use that divine wisdom for good and compassion you go back to Day One of creation. You become partners with God to create the world and renew things again, because you aren’t under the sun, the sun hasn’t been created yet. You are before the sun, greater than the sun and the light you bring forth in the world helps renew and create the world in which we live.

Now that is a powerful philosophy by which to live your life and this is why I’m studying in Jerusalem at Pardes.

Shabbat Shalom.

Are You Religious?

“Are you religious?” one Israeli asked me.

“Yes.”

He then looked for a kipah (yamaka) on my head. There wasn’t one. Then he wondered what I was doing out late on a Friday night.

I then proceeded to explain that you could be religious and spiritual without being Orthodox. He was thoroughly confused as are most Israelis to the concept of Reform or Conservative Judaism.

Secular Israelis (66% of the population) “know” what being “religious” is: Orthodox and ultra-Orthodox. And they want nothing do with religion. They see how many “religious” people act in business, politics and in life and they are thoroughly disgusted. I wonder if these “religious” people know or care how many people they are turning away from religion, God and spirituality.

Regardless, for a long time, there was no middle ground in Israel like there is in the U.S. with Reform and Conservative Judaism. That is slowly changing thanks to people like Rabbi Meir Azari of Beit Daniel (Beit Daniel). Beit Daniel is a thriving progressive (Israel’s name for reform) synagogue in Tel Aviv.

Since Israel is a Jewish state, synagogues get state funding to operate. But since the Orthodox control religious power in Israel, any synagogue that isn’t Orthodox doesn’t get any funding. Rabbi Azari has built a synagogue, a school, and a new 5 story guest house, Mishkenot Ruth Daniel, in which I’m staying. He has done this despite no funding from the government, political pressure and sabotage of property by religious wackos trying to prevent him from opening his doors.

There is such a demand from Israelis for a spirituality and an expression of religion that is not Orthodox, that Beit Daniel is doing over 500 Bar Mitzvahs a year and is marrying hundreds of people, despite those marriages not being considered legal in Israel! These people want a spiritual wedding and go overseas after their real wedding so that it can be recognized by the state of Israel.

I’m a big fan of Rabbi Azari, who I first met in Santa Barbara, and I’m also a supporter of Beit Daniel and how they are trying to bring a more spiritual and open form of Judaism to Israel.

Let me end with a story. I had a wonderful Shabbat dinner Friday night with an Israeli family. The grandmother moved to Israel as a Zionist in 1950. She was never religious. Her husband died a few years ago. A reform Rabbi came over to learn more about her husband. He consoled her and gave a moving memorial service. She told me of how much it meant to her that the Rabbi had done so much for her.

You can literally hear Israelis cry out for change when you talk to them and it breaks your heart.